The other negative to sharing time with Moe is that I don't trust my parenting decisions - any of them.  I second guess everything and it gets frustrating fast. 



A is still having a grand day.  She was yelling at me just how unfair everything is and I tried to calmly reason with her.  When that didn't work, I told her she was right that I love M more and she is my favorite.  Probably not the smartest thing I have ever done.