Sharing time with Moe comes at a cost.  Our actions are more patient than they would be if only Moe were present, but it is much harder for me to be patient and exhibit self-control.  I do because it is right, but I struggle.  I yell more.  I cuss more.  I am more angry and it takes longer to feel calm again.  And then when I begin to feel calm, I berate myself more inside my own head.  For what I did, even if it wasn't wrong; for what I thought, even if I didn't do it; for what I felt, no matter what.  And then it quickly deteriorates from that to all of the other feelings that Moe carries around all the time.  There is benefit in the big picture, but in the short term sharing time with Moe definitely comes at a high cost.