The little girls are here today.  That was unexpected.  It's going to be hard for the big girls to get their school finished.  A didn't volunteer at the library, so she has to put in 8 hours at her desk.  Whatever.  I have a h/a b/c I am trying so hard to stay present.  No one else needs to deal with the big girls and the fight we are having.  Last night after bed, they were talking and I went in and had them tell me what they were talking about.  That pissed them off.  Then I decided to make it harder for them to talk after bed and rearranged the room.  M started screaming and yelling.  Even when I was done, she kept yelling and followed me out of the bedroom.  That was more than I felt like I could deal with but at least I handled it fine.  Only one of us was yelling.  So then everyone woke up in a bad mood and the little girls were almost immediately here.  HELP!!!