Part of it was legit.  Most of it was me overreacting b/c I was so tired. 

Bad news:  I am still very tired and she is still throwing a fit! 

Good news:  I am not overreacting today. 

Bad news:  She is in her room.  Again. 

Good news:  I had her identify what she is stressed about and reminded her that although she has the choice not to talk about that until she is ready, she does not have the right to throw a fit about every other little thing in the meantime. 

Better news:  I think she listened!