Every interaction in some way is a fight.  Either it makes her mad, she thinks I'm mad, she feels unloved or undervalued, she feels picked on, whatever.  This is too much.  I really just need a few minutes of peace so that I can focus.  Simply asking her to go to her room so that I can be away from the constant tension that is interacting with her right now creates an even bigger fight because I'm "picking on" her or "punishing" her for something that is "my" problem.  If I thought it might help, I would scream.  I need a break.